Strong marriages are built on communication, not commentary.
For 32 years, my wife Dellaina and I have been married, and I can honestly say we’ve been blessed. For most of our marriage, I worked while Dellaina stayed home with our children. She devoted herself to being a wife, a mother, and a homemaker. I took pride in providing for our family. To us, that was the ideal marriage. Not because it matched someone else’s expectations, but because it worked for us. Dellaina has always been incredible in her role. She created a home filled with love, stability, and warmth. Managing a household and raising children is no small task. It requires patience, sacrifice, and consistency. I never viewed what she did as “less than” simply because it didn’t come with a paycheck. And I truly enjoyed carrying the responsibility of providing. That was our partnership. Lately, though, I’ve noticed something that troubles me. I hear couples talking, and I see posts on TikTok, X, YouTube, and Facebook where spouses publicly complain about their “lazy” husband ...